091 How The Masculine Paradigm Sucks for Real Success with Alaina Schwartz

Alaina Schwartz talks about “How The Masculine Paradigm Sucks for Real Success” in this episode of Intuitive Leadership Mastery with host Michaela Light.

• Show notes
  • How Masculine domain energy stops the flow
  • Create the Success You Want by Moving in Flow 
  • Relationships are key
  • Creating new future aligned with your true you and true why 
  • The science of mindset
  • The Habits that Shift You From Burn-Out to Abundance. 
  • Who we truly are
  • Bio
  • Links

Show notes

How Masculine domain energy stops the flow

• • Balance of male and female
    • Yin and Yang
    • All have both
  • In our society high achievers tend of be high maculine dominant
  • Feminism – taught to succeed as male in biz
  • Burn out 
    • Overwhelm
    • Stress
    • Relationship issues
    • Health issues
    • Spiritual lack
  • The Masculine Paradigm of Success
    • Structure 
    • Hustle and single minded focus, no emotions
      • Avoid weak

Create the Success You Want by Moving in Flow 

• • Ego running biz vs high self. Struggle vs flow
    • Not Culturally corporate
  • Your day flow easy
  • True to your own self
  • Self-love, self-valuing
  • Aligned with our purpose → satisfaction

Relationships are key

• • Better negotiations
  • Relationship to self
    • Healthy self talk
    • Look inside to see success
    • Love your Self (higher self not ego self) first, then other others and the planet
    • Goals – Who your are vs what you want
      • Energetic alignment to what we want
      • How does a person who already has achieved this goal behave, talk, how dress etc?
      • Shift your mindset and thoughts and emotions and habits
      • Confidence
      • Visionize the emotion of having achieved this goal, being this new person
      • Habits – addiction to the familiar, fear of unknown
    • Flow and synchronicities
  • Relationship to money
    • Energy current – currency – flow
    • Gratitude
    • Easy making money
    • Easy keeping the money you make
    • Satisfaction of what you make
      • Joy of spending some of the money you make

Creating new future aligned with your true you and true why 

• • Predictable Past way vs new way (unpredictable)
  • Inside vs outside validation
  • Time in Nature and higher level intelligence
  • Outside
    • Advertising
      • Movie “They Live” (video)
  • School
  • Experts
  • Parents beliefs and criticism
    • Childhood theta brainwave state
  • Low news to no news diet
    • Conscious choice of media you consume
  • Conscious choice of people in your biz and life
    • Friends
    • Family
    • Spouse
    • Staff
    • Clients
    • Vendors
    • Avoiding dream stealers 
    • 3 min 3 hour 3 days people
    • Masterminds and mentors
  • Environment – biz clutter

The science of mindset

• • Science has become the language of Mysticism 
    • Dr Joe Dispenza 
    • RAS = Reticular Activating System 
      • Noticing
      • Limiting beliefs 
  • How to Create Wealth, Abundance and Freedom through the power of Your Mind

The Habits that Shift You From Burn-Out to Abundance. 

• • Habits for Flow in Business
  • Rewiring my brains

Who we truly are

• • When we truly strip away the limiting beliefs and patterns that have covered up the truth of who we are (which is love), and cultivate self love, it allows us to be guided by our intuition and move/create in flow states, rather than being in hustle, push, push, push, do, do, do.